Skincare & Self-care

What I actually put on my face at 44, and the small rituals that keep me feeling like a person.

I’m forty-four. My routine takes five minutes, my drawer of mistakes is enormous, and the most useful thing I do for myself has nothing to do with a bottle. Here’s all of it, honestly.

A few simple skincare bottles on a sunlit bathroom counter
A few simple skincare bottles and a folded linen cloth on a sunlit bathroom counter
Skincare & Self-careAugust 1, 20267 min read

My honest five-minute skincare routine at 44

No ten-step ritual, no fridge full of serums. Five things, five minutes, most mornings — and the one I would keep if I could only keep one.

Small potted herbs in terracotta pots on a sunlit kitchen windowsill
Skincare & Self-careMay 19, 20264 min read

The sunscreen I wish I had started at 25

I am not going to pretend I was diligent. I was not. But I have worn it every single day for six years now, and that is the part I can still control.

A candle lit beside a bathtub with a folded waffle towel on a wooden stool at dusk
Skincare & Self-careMarch 24, 20264 min read

A bath is not self-care, but it helps

The bath did not fix the week. What helped was the closed door, and finally being willing to say out loud that I needed forty minutes.